The Relationship Quiz

Click on the appropriate answer and see the results at the end of the quiz

1. Does your partner question where you go?
Yes
No
Sometimes

2. question who you see?
Yes
No
Sometimes

3. question who you talk to?
Yes
No
Sometimes

4. question what you do?
Yes
No
Sometimes

5. put you down?
Yes
No
Sometimes

6. play mind games with you?
Yes
No
Sometimes

7. call you names?
Yes
No
Sometimes

8. make you feel bad about yourself?
Yes
No
Sometimes

9. keep you from getting a job?
Yes
No
Sometimes

10. give you an allowance?
Yes
No
Sometimes

11. take your money?
Yes
No
Sometimes

12. criticize your spending?
Yes
No
Sometimes

13. intimidate you?
Yes
No
Sometimes

14. smash your things?
Yes
No
Sometimes

15. make threats to leave you?
Yes
No
Sometimes

16. make threats to commit suicide if you leave?
Yes
No
Sometimes

17. make all the important decisions?
Yes
No
Sometimes

18. treat you like a servant?
Yes
No
Sometimes

19. belittle your work?
Yes
No
Sometimes

20. make you feel less important?
Yes
No
Sometimes

21. hit you?
Yes
No
Sometimes

22. push or shove you?
Yes
No
Sometimes

23. threaten to hurt you?
Yes
No
Sometimes

24. become angry with you often?
Yes
No
Sometimes

25. make you do sexual things against your will?
Yes
No
Sometimes

26. make fun of your sexual parts?
Yes
No
Sometimes

27. care only about themselves during sex?
Yes
No
Sometimes

28. treat you like a sex object?
Yes
No
Sometimes

29. Care little about your opinion?
Yes
No
Sometimes


30. let you do all the mundane chores?
Yes
No
Sometimes

31. neglect to give you support when you ask for it?
Yes
No
Sometimes

32. spend more time away from you?
Yes
No
Sometimes

33. never share his/her feelings?
Yes
No
Sometimes

34. leave you out of important conversations on issues?
Yes
No
Sometimes

35. enjoy being with friends more than with you?
Yes
No
Sometimes

36. get jealous when someone pays you attention?
Yes
No
Sometimes

37. criticize you for your mistakes?
Yes
No
Sometimes

38. have mood swings that affect how you behave?
Yes
No
Sometimes

Score =

If you have answered yes, to more than 10 of these questions you could be involved in an unhealthy relationship

Healthy relationships require the following

  • mutual respect and consideration for each others needs
  • caring about each others feelings
  • sharing household work
  • sharing child care
  • sharing of important decisions
  • supporting each other in difficult times
  • open and honest communication
  • trusting one another
  • intimacy and willingness to compromise
  • a mutual commitment to work and grow together
This quiz can be used to stimulate a dialogue with your partner or as a self awareness tool. The information was gathered by members of the Community Council Against Violence and may be duplicated and used by anyone.